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December 6, 2011
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legacy

I just spent the last 2 hours in a cramped 3-bed hospital room with my 82-year-old Godmother. This is the woman my daughter is named after. The woman who was a best friend to my grandmother, a kind of surrogate mother for my own mother and the woman at whose home I have the fondest memories of my childhood. She is a pretty amazing woman and I am so incredibly thankful that she has always been a part of my life. Talking with her today, we covered the usual. How the kids and Natural Urban Dad are doing, how goes the progress on the new house, and the usual chit-chat. And then the conversation took a turn that it often does with her. She is ready to die. She actually wants to die. Seven years ago this December, the love of her life, the man she was married to...

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Bizarro World and a Foot Rub

December 2, 2011
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Bizarro World and a Foot Rub

Something weird happened last Sunday. And by weird I mean, like bizarro world, everything is backwards weird. I worked the Mommylicious trade show in Edmonton on Sunday. I was on my feet from 9 Am until 4:30 PM fitting mamas and daddies with beautiful baby carriers and running the show’s stroller check (check in your stroller and ‘check out’ a baby carrier while you shop). I also got to have some amazing sleepy 6-week-old snuggles with my friend’s sweet baby girl who slept on me for about 2 hours! It was a great day. And a long day. Natural Urban Dad was home with the kids all day and I got a few texts from him as the day went on about what they were doing. Seems the kids were having a day of “let’s not listen to Daddy and therefore not get to go to “Fish Mouth” with...

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It’s decision time….

November 25, 2011
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As you may know, the past few months have been a struggle for me. Personally, I have been dealing with my yearly seasonal blues demons and just barely keeping them at bay. It is getting better though and I have my fabulous little family and some really great friends (new and old) to thank for that. And a healthy dose of Vitamin D every day seems to be helping too! Professionally, it has been a struggle as well. Working as a solo entrepreneur is hard work.  Actually, it is VERY hard work. And doing so while also being the stay-at-home parent to two preschool-aged children makes it even harder. Somehow they NEED me more now then they ever have before (more on this later) and finding the time to focus on ALL of my babies is getting harder and harder. Please understand that I love what I do. I...

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All work and no play makes for…

August 15, 2011
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….late nights alone with your computer! The other night a fellow blogger posted on her Facebook page that she gets all her best writing and work done between the hours of 10 PM and 1 AM. I totally agree with her, as this also happens to be my most creative and focused time of the day as well. BUT…. ..this kind of schedule…. well….. It does nothing for one’s love life! Let’s face it. We are up at the crack of dawn with little ones (often after an interrupted night’s sleep, because of said littles). We feed them all day, play with them, take them to play dates and the park and various other activities. Some of us work full-time jobs, some of us work from home. We make dinner for the family, give baths, read books and finally put them all to bed. And then it is grown-up...

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Scrubber Sponges, Chinese Philosophy and my husband…

February 18, 2011
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Scrubber Sponges, Chinese Philosophy and my husband…

We sort of have an unwritten rule in our house, no writing about Natural Urban Dada. I am a blogger, yes, and I am very open about my feelings and my life here, but he has veto power about anything that crosses that unwritten “line in the sand” and is about him. Today however, he has given me carte blanche to blog about him! (It may not be exactly what he had in mind). This was our conversation last night as I was cleaning up and washing dishes after dinner. “What are you doing? Why do you wash away all the soap you just put on the scrubber? Wha….You just did it again!” “Whatever, the dishes get cleaned don’t they?”, I said glibly. “But, you aren’t doing it right. You’re wasting too much soap and water. I can’t believe you call yourself green!” “I just do it differently than...

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