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Not evil, just corporations and marketing 101.

March 17, 2012
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I feel the need to also publish this post tonight. I wrote this at the same time as I did my previous post, but they needed separating in order for my thoughts on both to be clear and concise (and to make sense to me!). My friend who wrote about the “heart” vs “brain” conversations when it comes to breastfeeding or not, also brought up something that I feel I need to explore in a bit more detail. She said in her post that: …groups that appear extremist seldom accomplish much beyond polarizing the already divided public and swaying public opinion away from their original goals. I think the breastfeeding “movement” falls victim to this, getting labeled by the crazy behaviours of a smaller subsection of our population.  This makes us feel sad and defeated, and we react from that emotional place as opposed to regrouping and considering more...

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Passion and Compassion

March 16, 2012
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Passion and Compassion

It is not until you become a mother that your judgment slowly turns to compassion and understanding. ~Erma Bombeck Oh Erma, how I wish this was more true. Compassion. A feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering. As mothers we (are supposed to) have it in spades. For our babies, who need us 24/7 to nourish, nurture, love and keep them safe. For our husbands and partners, who for the above reasons need us as well and because they are there for us when we need them. Sharing our lives, bringing home the bacon, or doing the stay-at-home parent thing while we go back to work. And for our fellow {wo}man. Our sisters, our friends, the stranger with 4 kids under 4  struggling at the grocery store, the new mama doing her best to figure this all out, the grandmother who has been there and done that and now looks on with a touch...

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Attachment Parenting… Not as ‘fringe’ as you may think.

March 10, 2012
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Attachment Parenting… Not as ‘fringe’ as you may think.

Kooky. Fringe. Unhealthy. Enslaving. Controversial. These are just a few of the terms I have heard this week to describe Attachment Parenting. All of this in the wake of Mayim Bialik’s new book, “Beyond the Sling: A real life guide to raising confident, loving children the Attachment Parenting way.” being released. Mayim tackles and explores the many aspects of attachment parenting in her book, including babywearing, baby-led weaning, elimination communication and co-sleeping. I went to Chapter’s earlier this week to see if I could get my hands on the book, but they had not received their shipment yet. I am really looking forward to reading this book. I think that Mayim has a lot to offer the parenting world and not just the ‘kooky’ attachment parenting world. I mean, the woman does have a PhD in neuroscience and did her thesis on the properties of human attachment, outside of...

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a few of my “least” favourite things

January 23, 2012
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A few things have me all riled up today. ~ When I am really, really wrong. Like having no problem swearing in front of my kids, saying that I don’t care if they swear as long as it is in context and then having them swear totally IN CONTEXTand realizing that I was WAY OFF BASE with this one. (Oops!) ~ Bad editing. Whether it be in a movie, a TV Show (Hello Once Upon a Time, I am talking to you), or a blog post. Especially a blog post. Spell Check people, know it, use it, love it! And please read and re-read your posts before you hit publish. ~ People trying to pass off someone else’s work, research or pictures as their own. Show some respect and give credit where it is due. (PS. Not only is this not very nice, it is often illegal! ~ Laundry. (Not...

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village people

January 19, 2012
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village people

My children and I are “regulars” at our own mommy and toddler version of Cheers. Yup, it is true. We go to a place where everybody knows our names, they’re always glad we came, and very often the people and our troubles are all the same. They have even named a drink after me! (And I may have been sitting there, without kids, drinking one while I wrote this!) I am of course speaking of our local cafe and play place, the wonderful Cafe O’Play. This parent’s dream of a cafe was the first of its kind in our fair city and it is a very busy, bustling and yes, often chaotic place to be. There are kids ranging from 0-5 years of age running around, playing, eating, sometimes crying, and otherwise behaving as kids of that age often do. And their parents all sit and sip yummy lattes...

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pointing out rainbows

January 17, 2012
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This post has been a long time coming. And I don’t really know how to write it. So here goes… I have come to a realization over the past few months. (You Mamas out there with little babies, listen up!) What I have realized is this. We have all been duped. We have been duped into believing that our babies need us the most when they are brand new. And while, yes, it is true that they do need us to clothe, feed, soothe, love and protect them while they are so tiny and vulnerable, once you get into a routine and you find your mama-baby rhythm, things can get relatively easy at this point. Yes, I know, I am making some big generalizations here, but stick with me on this. Last year I went to visit a friend in Toronto who had just had her third daughter. Her...

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Something I adore…

January 3, 2012
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Something I adore…

Day Three of the January Photo a Day Challenge. #JANphotoaday The sweet, sweet silence of bedtime!!

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Toddlers and Heros!

December 17, 2011
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Toddlers and Heros!

Call me silly, but I am SO, so excited tonight. A week and a half ago Annie at Phd in Parenting asked me to guest post for her awesome Carnival of Toddlers this month. And I really can’t lie, I may have done a few internal cartwheels when she sent me that tweet! Because here is the thing, Annie is kind of one of my heros. I have so much respect for her as an activist, a parent and a writer. I even sometimes think in my head when confronted with certain parenting and/or ethical questions…”What would Annie Do?” I had the immense pleasure of meeting her at Blissdom Canada this past October and she really is as awesome in person as she is online! So without further ado, here is the link to my guest post all about ‘Toddler Survival 101′! I do hope you like it and that you...

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Bizarro World and a Foot Rub

December 2, 2011
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Bizarro World and a Foot Rub

Something weird happened last Sunday. And by weird I mean, like bizarro world, everything is backwards weird. I worked the Mommylicious trade show in Edmonton on Sunday. I was on my feet from 9 Am until 4:30 PM fitting mamas and daddies with beautiful baby carriers and running the show’s stroller check (check in your stroller and ‘check out’ a baby carrier while you shop). I also got to have some amazing sleepy 6-week-old snuggles with my friend’s sweet baby girl who slept on me for about 2 hours! It was a great day. And a long day. Natural Urban Dad was home with the kids all day and I got a few texts from him as the day went on about what they were doing. Seems the kids were having a day of “let’s not listen to Daddy and therefore not get to go to “Fish Mouth” with...

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Perspective

October 26, 2011
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Perspective

 The ability to perceive things in their actual interrelations or comparative importance. I have been reluctant to write anything either here or on Mom Nation for the last few weeks. My last few posts brought out some strong emotions in a few people and some of the comments made either directly to me or indirectly and very passive aggressively on various social media platforms gave me my first taste of the dreaded ‘trolls’. And although I heeded the advice of many a blogger who has walked that bridge before me and did not feed the trolls, I would be lying if I said that the comments that got personal, the ones that questioned my integrity, my compassion and my right to say what I mean and mean what I say, well… they got to me. Now don’t get me wrong, I knew when I wrote that particular post that...

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